Let’s get straight to the point I’m 48. I’m not young anymore. I’m not as spritely anymore and I’m not perfect, like so many others claim to be. I’ve had the worst 3 years of my life, and been called every name under the sun. Mostly by people I used to support and look after in numerous ways, others that believe what they did was justified and some who believe they’ll never be found out. They’ve said shit, I’ve said shit, but ultimately is it all worth it?
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
Surround yourself with people who are not out for anything (but you know that). You might not be as financially well off as before but you have been given quality time to spend with your wife, kids and parents, they may have been put on the backburner a few years ago. The question is it all worth it? Hmm i think you have the right to reply to anyone who has falsely bad mouthed you, get it out your system or it will fester. There comes a point (you will know) where you're not interested in firing back, that's a good place to be. People keep saying to me life is too short to be falling out with this person and holding a grudge, i agree to a point (depends what they've done to me) however, life is far too short for me to have these assholes in my life. I choose peace and always a smile. Keep smiling and keep upbeat no matter what.
love pics like this capturing normal everyday moments but they make such beautifull memories. x
they say everything happens for a reason and tho we may feel shitty about things that people have done too us we have too go with tha fact that part of life has changed ... x
your getting too spend so much quality time with your family it's was sooo ment too be for you now ....
Hi Noel, it's been a long and harsh journey for you these last few years and I'm sorry you have gone through it. I truly hope that things do start to work out for you and that we get to see your presence again on our screens. I'm sorry your parents are not well, I understand your pain. My husband was diagnosed with Dementia 3 years ago and it's hard watching the vibrant, funny nutjob of a man I love rapidly disappear before my eyes, we can still laugh and joke and we have lots of cuddles & kisses. Like you, I don't know when he will finish his journey and I know I will have to say goodbye permanently to my soul mate, he is only 66, I just pray I get a few more years with him but I will cherish the time I have. Much love to you and your family, it will all work out in the end xxx
A poem I try and live by
Thought it might help
Desiderata:
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
Max Ehrmann 1927
Surround yourself with people who are not out for anything (but you know that). You might not be as financially well off as before but you have been given quality time to spend with your wife, kids and parents, they may have been put on the backburner a few years ago. The question is it all worth it? Hmm i think you have the right to reply to anyone who has falsely bad mouthed you, get it out your system or it will fester. There comes a point (you will know) where you're not interested in firing back, that's a good place to be. People keep saying to me life is too short to be falling out with this person and holding a grudge, i agree to a point (depends what they've done to me) however, life is far too short for me to have these assholes in my life. I choose peace and always a smile. Keep smiling and keep upbeat no matter what.
love pics like this capturing normal everyday moments but they make such beautifull memories. x
they say everything happens for a reason and tho we may feel shitty about things that people have done too us we have too go with tha fact that part of life has changed ... x
your getting too spend so much quality time with your family it's was sooo ment too be for you now ....
you'll get your day with them (haters)
and i'm sure you'll come
back will be so worth the wait xx
Hi Noel, it's been a long and harsh journey for you these last few years and I'm sorry you have gone through it. I truly hope that things do start to work out for you and that we get to see your presence again on our screens. I'm sorry your parents are not well, I understand your pain. My husband was diagnosed with Dementia 3 years ago and it's hard watching the vibrant, funny nutjob of a man I love rapidly disappear before my eyes, we can still laugh and joke and we have lots of cuddles & kisses. Like you, I don't know when he will finish his journey and I know I will have to say goodbye permanently to my soul mate, he is only 66, I just pray I get a few more years with him but I will cherish the time I have. Much love to you and your family, it will all work out in the end xxx